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内容简介
As charming performers who skillfully reflect their parents expectations, far too many children grow into adults driven to greater and greater achievements by an underlying sense of worthlessness. Never allowed to express their true feelings, and having lost touch with their true selves, they act out their repressed feelings with episodes of depression and compulsive behavior. …
作者简介
【瑞士】爱丽丝•米勒(Alice Miller)
一位以关注儿童早期心理创伤及其对成年生活影响而闻名世界的心理学家。她颠覆了传统的儿童心理学观点,提醒世人注意到父母对儿童的侵犯所带来的影响,并在欧洲引起巨大共鸣。米勒出生在波兰犹太家庭,第二次世界大战期间在纳粹的迫害中幸存,1946年获得奖学金进入瑞士最古老的巴塞尔大学,1953年起陆续获得哲学、心理学和社会学博士学位,并接受精神分析训练。米勒2010年辞世,享年87岁,留下许多脍炙人口的著作,为广大读者拓宽了看待儿童心理学的视野。代表作有:《身体不会说谎》《夏娃的觉醒》等。
评论
论文要用。
非常细致而精确地描述了不利的成长环境是如何扭曲了儿童的心灵。鉴于个人经历,读起来感同身受。
go ahead! blame all problems on the mothers….another confirmation that psycharists are the ones with problems
People’s behavior has something to do with their childhood experiences.
一脉相承于精神分析的作者,很重视人对早年经历的心灵觉察,grandiosity,depression,contempt 的刻画立体而入木三分,其对人儿童期的人性关怀更像是精神分析与人本的融合,注重内心体验而非片面强调性。同时如果能补充上过度包办也是种创伤会使论点更全面,总之it is not your fault~